So what is a cleansing anyway?
I am not referring to dusting and vacuuming your home, nor am I referring to getting rid of old furniture, clothing, or the garbage that has littered your home. Cleansing in this case means to either bring in positive energies, or removing negative ones.
I am often asked "How or why would any one require or want this done?"
Majority of my clients want to feel safe and feel peaceful in their homes. When the house feels stale, empty, or negative; people want those feelings to disappear. Sometimes people of religious faith want to have the home blessed and have a removal of any evil that may be lurking within.
Now I am asked, "What about haunting, negative feelings or evil beings?"
People that claim to live in a haunted home might have a spirit or ghost that is playful, helpful and kind. In these cases, the people would like to have what ever is there to be calmed and relaxed. Most are okay with sharing there home with spirits, ghosts or beings that lurk in the shadows. Now when it comes to a spirit or ghost that is constantly noisy, poking, or pushing people and things; a client wants these things to stop or to away. As far as evil beings such as demons, majority of people would rather move from their home than have it dealt with. In any case, each is treated accordingly to the wishes of the home owners. Unfortunately there are no guarantees.
When I prepare for a cleansing there are a few herbs I like to use.
These are items I like to use for blessings and banishment.
Holy Water: used manly in christian belief system, the ideas behind it are relatively the same. It has many uses across many modern religions to protect, banish, heal, curse, cleanse, purify, and the list goes on and on.
White Candles: to help bring in positive energies
Black Candles: to help absorb the negative energies
Like others who preform cleansings, I tend to use an array of "tools" to help with focus.
crystals: amplifies whatever energy or intent that is needed.
Here is an example of a simple cleansing I would do in a home:
- light a white candle
- prepare a charcoal burner for the incense I made for the situation of the home
- open the front door and leave it open.
- go room to room starting in the back ringing a bell to start to help knell the energies within
- take the incense burner from room to room making sure to waft the smoke to every wall, across every window and anything that might be considered and opening to the unknown world.
- while using salt water, holy water, rose water, or my own concoction I chant a blessing or a banishment depending what is required.
- I ask the clients to please come with me from room to room and tell them that they need to vocalize that this is their house and what ever has been dwelling within to either respect their wishes and is allowed to stay or to leave and not return.
- take sea salt from room to room and sprinkle it across the thresholds and windows and any other opening in the room.
- light a black candle and go from room to room asking only good remain and all negative energies to go into the candle.
- gather up the remaining incense, the little bit of water used, and the black candle and take it out the front door.
- at the edge of the front of the property I dump out the incense, poor the water on it, and then blow out the black candle away from the house.
- when I return to the front door I sprinkle the threshold with salt and then blow out the white candle.
- I then (depending on client) give them the white and black candle, a pouch of the incense. I tell them to light the candles (white for positive, black for negative) when they feel they need a sense of calming or peace. The incense may or many not be used by them, but i like to give them what I used (tends to give them a sense of empowerment)
Each cleansing is different depending on the need of the client/s. Each cleansing is unique and carters to the client/s beliefs and /or religion. I have great faith in what I do, but I do not guarantee that a cleansing or banishment will work, especially when the client starts to have doubts or questions if any thing I do will work. I am upfront with all the herbs I use; this allows the client a chance to say what they want or do not want, or perhaps they may have an allergy to a certain herb. I do not go against the client/s wishes. If they want a follow up, I am happy to comply. My views and opinions are my own.